The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

  • The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People® is one of the key frameworks of the Leader in Me model. The 7 Habits help students learn and apply social-emotional skills. Additionally, the 7 Habits give students and staff members a common language and are essential in building a strong leadership culture. Learn about the 7 Habits in schools, or watch a free 7 Habits Webinar.

     

    7 Habits for Kids 


    Be Proactive

     

    Habit 1 — Be Proactive
    You're in Charge
    I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes, and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.

     

     

    Begin With the End in Mind

     

     

    Habit 2 — Begin with the End in Mind
    Have a Plan
    I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school’s mission and vision. I look for ways to be a good citizen.

     

     

    put firsth things first

     

    Habit 3 — Put First Things First
    Work First, Then Play
    I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.


     

    win win

     

     

    Habit 4 — Think Win-Win
    Everyone Can Win
    I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others’ Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.


    5 understand

     

    Habit 5 — Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
    Listen Before You Talk
    I listen to other people’s ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.


     

    synergize

     

    Habit 6 — Synergize

    Together Is Better
    I value other people’s strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people’s ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.


     

    Sharpen the Saw

     

    Habit 7 — Sharpen The Saw

    Balance Feels Best
    I take care of my body by eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.

     

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